为了实现你的目标，你必须尽到什么责任？接下来要进行的是一个竞争性的活动，是一个真正让你思考你如何履行责任和实现目标的活动，这个活动需要所有的学员分成两大组。
活动引导（5分钟）
提问：在团队中上下级关系有那些困惑？你希望有什么样的领导？你希望有怎样的员工？为什么员工总是抱怨领导对他的帮助和支持不够？难道是真的吗？为什么领导总是委屈我为员工做了那么多为什么就是不被理解？
自动分队（3分钟）
请用你们自己的方式在两分钟内分为男女相当的、人数相等的两队。
选领袖活动
这是一面镜子，一种体验，你是否有自信、勇气、力量得到伙伴的认同？我们看看这四位领袖来自那几个小组，我们都相信我们的小组是最棒的，这是不是真的？ 领袖要求
1、强烈的企图心、信心、决心、明确的目标--赢
2、丰富的肢体语言，快速使队员情绪达到颠峰状态
3、超强的行动力
（音乐：西班牙斗牛曲）
领袖誓言
1、问：你们认为怎么样的比赛比较合适？
2、报数的游戏规则
（1）这是一个竞争的游戏，获胜的方法是在最短的时间完成报数；
（2）错报、漏报、跳报视为犯规；
（3）一队比赛时，另一队安静，不得有任何干扰，否则判其负；
（4）各队队长由选举产生，每位队员必须全力支持队长的工作；
（5）队长必须宣誓为队伍尽职尽责、履行义务、承担100%责任；
（6）队长未履行完职责前不得有任何其他的举动，否则裁判有对其…… 处分的权利；
（7）教练为场上裁判，拥有最高最终裁判权；
（8）队长承担责任示范。
Coach：队长誓词
我承诺以任何的代价为，全体队员负完全的责任，在所不惜！
宣誓人：
Coach：队长职责
胜方：带领全队仰天哈哈大笑，承让。
负方：
1、带领全组向对方鞠躬、致辞：“领教，恭喜你们”
2、队长做二十个俯卧撑，再输则翻倍。
建设团队（3分钟）
1、团队成员讨论比赛策略及练习
2、最后一分钟测试摸底成绩
（斗牛曲）
Coach：导引词
所有人围过来，，好好看看这两位领袖艰难的苦苦支撑的背影，他们在为谁承受着挫折、困难和失败的结果？这时候你看着他们强撑的背影你想到了谁？
在你们的工作和生活中，是不是也经常会有人默默地去替你们承担许多责任，承担那些因为你的疏忽、轻视、失误、不努力而造成的不好的后果。
1、好好看看哪个已经撑不起来了的女人的背影，她像不像一直以来为了生你、养你而为你承担了所有责任的母亲的背影？无论你有什么样的病痛，哪怕是一点点小感冒，她都紧张的食不甘味，夜不成眠，甚至她都愿意为你承担所有的病痛呀！可她也有撑不起来的时候！而这时她只能偷偷的落泪！
2、再好好看看那个还在强撑着的男人的背影，他又像不像你生命中为了你的成长、你的教育、你的所有一切的父亲的背影？在家庭当中他永远都是最坚强的，他要扛起所有的一切甚至是灾难。可他也有撑不起，扛不动的时候，这时，他只能一个人找个角落，点上一支烟，倒上一杯酒，连眼泪都不能流出来，所有的孤独，所有的落寞，所有的酸楚都要强撑着用眼泪包裹着往肚子里吞呀！可是，无论什么时候，他们都没有抱怨过，没有放弃过，没有停止努力过，他们都深深的知道：既然选择了你就要担当！
3、再好好看看他们强撑着的背影，又像不像你的老板，你的领导！他们就像一直以来呵护你成长起来的父母一样呵护着企业的发展。在这个过程中你真的能理解他们所承受的这么多的无奈、委屈、心酸吗？为了企业。可能他们的孩子经常只能在睡梦中见到自己的爸爸、妈妈；为了企业，可能他们的妻子、丈夫只能用亮着窗灯来等他们回家；为了企业，可能他们甚至付出了只有他们自己才知道的沉重的代价。可是他们面对企业的今天，与自己已经逝去的年华，他们认为是值得的，只是在他们心里对自己的亲人、爱人、儿女怀上了深深的歉疚藏在心底。与那些走在这条道路上的阵亡者比起来，他们还感到了一丝欣慰，也更加的珍惜企业的今天，选择了就要承担，这就是负责任的精神在这里得以延续。
4、好好看看他们的背影，又像不像你的爱人、你的朋友、你的同事、你的儿女，你的恋人？或者你自己？这时候你想起了谁？
5、请让你们的领袖停下来把！他们用他们的承诺实践了他们的选择--100%的承担起了责任！在你们中间，有一张凳子、凳子上有个麦克风，你有什么感受、体验或是有什么心理话，你可以和伙伴们分享。这里不需要掌声，你只需要将你最真实的、最深的体会告诉大家。
学员分享：（20分钟）……音乐：思念谁
感恩领袖（10分钟）
1、所有伙伴请围成一个圈，在这里，我们感谢他们为我们带来的人生感悟，我们是否太繁忙了，我们将我们生命中如此重要的关系忽略了，我们追求着时髦、享受、
而往往将我们心灵中一直渴望而就在身边的爱、支持、责任、感恩、快乐都拿去做了交易，可是我们真的停下来一下，静下来一会的时候，我们发现这些其实是我们一直以来在苦苦寻找的生命的意义、人生的真谛。这些随着时间的印痕会被风，会被雨侵蚀得沉甸甸的感觉，感谢上仓，给了我们一双慧眼，让我们在这里借助这四位领袖使我们能撩开已经蒙上了我们的心灵的面纱来找回我们自己。这里，就让我们用我们的肢体语言来表达对四位领袖的爱和感恩吧！
2、请四位领袖闭上眼睛，1、2两队的所有伙伴请各自将你们的两位领袖用你们所有的队员的手织成是温暖、舒适的网，像摇篮一样，让他们躺在里面，轻轻的晃动起来，因为，我们就像小时候，父母总是愿意将我们揽在怀里一样，今天，我们从他们四位身体力行中重新感悟到了对我们这么重要的一课。
3、好请将他们放下来，让我们一起围在他们四位身边一起畅想我们的未来。 音乐：感恩的心、有你有我
英文翻译对照，仅供参考
To achieve your goal, what responsibility must you use up? What should undertake next is an emulative activity, it is an activity that allows you to ponder over you how to fulfil responsibility and implementation goal truly, this activity needs all student to divide two groups big.
Mobile guiding (5 minutes)
Quiz: Does in the group fluctuation class relation have those bewilderment? Do you hope what to kind of leader there is? Do you hope what to kind of stuff there is? Why does employee always complain the leader help to him and support are inadequate? Be true? Why to lead why is always subdueing me to be done for employee more so be understood?
Automatic element (3 minutes)
The means that uses pron yourselves please divides what comparative for the men and women inside dichotomy bell, the two teams with equal number.
Choose cacique activity
This is one side mirror, a kind of experience, whether do you have self-confident, courage, force to get companionate self-identity? We see these 4 cacique come from those a few groups, we believe our group is the most marvellous, is this true? Cacique requirement
1, intense intentional heart, confidence, determination, specific target- - win
2, rich limbs language, make team member mood achieves summit summit status quickly
3, exceed powerful action force
(music: Spanish bullfight music)
Cacique oath
1, ask: The match that how you think is more appropriate?
2, the game that number off is regular
(1) the game that this is a competition, victorious method is finish in the shortest time number off;
(2) wrong newspaper, fail to report sth, jump the newspaper regards as foul;
(3) when covey match, another team is quiet, must not have any interference, sentence its to lose otherwise;
(4) each group team leader arises by the election, every team member must support the work of captain with all one's strength;
(5) captain must make a pledge to fulfil his duty for the team responsible, fulfil obligation, assume 100% responsibility;
(6) there must not be any other activities before captain did not fulfil obligation, otherwise the judgment has to its... the right of punish;
(7) the coach is the judgment on field, have right of highest and final judgment;
(8) captain assumes responsibility to set an example.
Coach: Captain oath
I am affirmatory with any cost is, all team member bears complete responsibility, will not grudge!
Oath person:
Coach: Captain duty
Get the better of square: Guide whole group to admire a day to burst out laughing, bear let.
Lose square:
1, guide whole group to bow to the other side, speech: "Ask advice, congratulation you "
2, captain does 20 push-up, be defeated to turn over times again.
Build a group (3 minutes)
1, strategy of group member discussion match and exercise
2, last minutes of test tries to find out the real intention achievement
(bullfight music)
Coach: Guide make a statement
Everybody is surrounded come over, , see the props up hard back of hardship of these two cacique well, are they in for who bearing the result of setback, difficulty and failure? Did you think of the back that at that time you look at them to be maintained by force who?
In your job and life, also assume a lot of responsibility silently for you via regular meeting somebody, because,assume those your neglect, despise, the error, bad consequence that do not try hard and causes.
1, see the which back that has maintained the woman that did not rise well, does she resemble unlike all the time since to give birth to you, the back of the mother that raise you and assumed all responsibility for you? No matter you have what kind of ailment, even if be little small cold, she is nervous feed unwilling flavour, night does not go to sleep, even she is willing to assume all ailment for you! But she also has maintain when rising! And at this moment she can secretly weep!
2, see that return the back in the man that supporting by force well again, does he resemble unlike again grow for yours in your life, the back of all your education, your all father? Between the family he is the firmest forever, he should be carried case all everything is catastrophic even. But he also has maintain do not rise, carry immobile moment, at this moment, he can a person seeks a corner, light a cigarette, pour on one cup of wine, connect tear to cannot flow, all loneliness, all desolate, all distressed ambitious maintaining lapping be swallowed in past abdomen with tear! But, whatever moment, they had not complained, had not abandoned, did not stop to had tried hard, they are deep know: Since chose you to be about to take on!
3, the back that sees them be being maintained by force well again, resemble unlike again your boss, your leader! They resemble all the time since caress you to grow the development that there is an enterprise like the parents that rise. Can in this process you understand the helpless, grievance of so much of their place susceptive, feel sad really? For the enterprise. Their child often can be in the likelihood only the father that oneself see in sleep, mom; For the enterprise, their wife, husband can use the possibility only bright window light will wait for them to come home; For the enterprise, they paid the likelihood to have the heavy price that themselves just knows only even. But they confront a company today, with oneself already parting time, they consider as worthiness, just be opposite in their heart oneself family member, sweetheart, children conceived deep apology regret to hide in the bottom of the heart. The person that go in the be killed in battle on this road with those is compared rise, they still felt gratified, also more those who value a company today, chose to be about to assume, the spirit that this bears the blame namely is able to continue here.
4, the back that sees them well, resemble unlike again your sweetheart, your friend, your colleague, your children, your lover? Or yourself? Who did you remember at that time?
5, the leader that invites you please stops! They carried out their choice with their acceptance- - of 100% assume had responsibility! It is among you, have there is a microphone on a piece of bench, bench, what do you have to experience, experience or be to have what psychology word, you can be mixed companionate people share. Here does not need applause, you need only you the truest, the most difficult experience tells everybody.
Student shares: (20 minutes) ... music: Who to long for
Be thankful cacique (10 minutes)
1, all associate are surrounded into a circle please, here, we thank the life that they bring for us to comprehend, we whether too busy, we give birth to us the relation oversight with hit the target so important, we are being gone after modern, enjoy,
And the love that yearn for all the time in the heart and often is us beside, support, responsibility, be thankful, happy go off with was done trade, but we stop really, static when coming down a little while, we discover these is us actually all the time since the essence of the meaning of the life that seeking hard, life. These are met as the moulage of time by wind, can be eroded to get the feeling of heavy by rain, the storehouse on acknowledgment, gave us a pair a mind which perceives both past and future, let us be here have the aid of these 4 cacique make we can the veil of the heart that hold up opened to had cheated us will look for an ourselves. Here, the limbs language that lets us use us will convey the love to 4 cacique and be thankful!
2, ask 4 cacique to close an eye, 1, all associate of 2 two teams use two your head you severally please the hand of all team member is woven is warmth, comfortable net, like the cradle, let them lie inside, gently rock rises, because, we resemble in one's childhood, parents always is willing to pull us like be in the bosom, today, we comprehended so important to us one lesson afresh from inside 4 their earnestly practise what one advocates.
3, good put them please, let us be surrounded in they are 4 together beside let his thought flow freely together our future. Music: The heart that be thankful, you have me
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